Can one really be polite?The very nature of the gesture makes it obvious.
You can't be polite and subtle at the same time. So is it really worth it to be polite?
Isn't it like pity? And isn't that rude?
The very idea of being polite is to act in a way which would need deliberate effort.
Does that not make it a lie? And is lying polite?
The very need for politeness is to avoid offending others.
That is assuming that they're not good enough to handle the truth.
NOW IS THAT POLITE?I don't think one can be polite without being disrespectful.
Politeness is like being rude but disguised.